After sitting down at the table and introducing yourselves to each other, look at your date and say something along these lines (playfully, with a smile): So, I've decided not to ask you what kind of job you have, or what you like to do fun.
We do believe that while the best way to get to know if you share values as well as chemistry is to observe whether a person’s actions match their words in real life; however, as a precursor, use this list to discover if that “future special someone” you just met online is the real thing. Based on their answer, you can evaluate if what they’re looking for matches what YOU are looking for. And if it doesn’t, someone else is right around the corner. This one will help you determine if your online date has a sense of humor! These interactions will DEFINITELY affect your potential future together, so it’s a great thing to know about ahead of time! Don’t ask things like, “When did your last relationship end and why?Last week we looked at how to make a good impression at a speed dating event, this week we look at-‘what to say! Kick-start things with the fun questions – keep a stash of ‘What’s your favourite…? Start with the social stuff: drinking places, holiday spots, and things to do on the weekend.’ Question Time Think of this as great practice run for that moment when you meet your OMG! And then, if you really can’t hold back from the dreaded work question, set the tone by volunteering what you do first.You have to admit it’s fun; the fact that you are, for once, allowed to judge people by their looks or your shallow first impressions is exhilarating.However, to be fair, I have met some wonderful guys online and wasn’t completely creeped out by them. We have been slowly removing the need for face to face interaction in almost every aspect of our lives, to the point that we don’t need it. I just included this because the answer is hell yes!